The Kris that helped you
May 3, 2026 at 2:40:35 PM
I have a question, Im reeeealy not trying to be rude or offend you but on your Strawpage you have the Nonbinary, Lesbian and I think Areoace flag? you also use He/they pronouns so now im confused. How are you Lesbian, Areoace and go by "he" ?
Im not that BIG into the label part of the LBGTQ so im curious
Replied on: May 3, 2026 at 4:30:07 PM
ok SO. first thing i want to pick off is that pronouns do not *always* equal gender, so it is possible to use any pronouns you want without it correlating to your gender, this can also go for masc/neu/fem terms depending on the individual using them. as some would rather be referred to masculine terms while identifying as feminine in some way and vice versa.
i am both a lesbian and aroace because while i experience little to no sexual & romantic attraction, any sexual or romantic attraction i DO feel (if any at all, ever,) is towards women, other non-binaries or woman-aligned individuals. i do not feel any romantic or sexual attraction towards men or man-aligned individuals (which is. obvious considering im a lesbian)
i hope this helps you in some way to understand why/how i identify as such ^_^" if not then um. Really sorry, this is the best way i can explain it.